In a moment of serendipity, a book found its way into my hands – a non-theological work amidst a collection from a late pastor’s library: Peter Pan. Having never journeyed through Neverland before, I was captivated by J.M. Barrie’s tale of the boy who wouldn’t grow up. Peter Pan, forever young, visits Wendy and her brothers, whisking them away to a world of adventure and perpetual childhood. Offered the chance to embrace adulthood, Peter vehemently refuses, clinging to the joys of eternal youth.
The Church in the Age of Peter Pan
This refusal to mature, to embrace the responsibilities and realities of adulthood, resonates deeply with a trend I observe in contemporary culture, and concerningly, within the church. We are increasingly becoming a Peter Pan generation, a society, and indeed, a body of believers, that seems reluctant to grow up spiritually.
Our culture has become a Peter Pan generation: The generation that refuses to grow up.
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This cultural phenomenon manifests in various ways: delayed milestones of adulthood, prolonged dependence on parents, and a general aversion to commitment and responsibility. Regrettably, these tendencies have seeped into the church. Consider the trajectory of influential church models. Andy Stanley, leading Northpoint Community Church, a megachurch with a staggering 32,000 members, pioneered a seeker-sensitive approach, aiming to create church environments appealing to the unchurched. Originating from a desire to connect with younger generations and those outside of faith, this movement, while initially successful in attracting large numbers, has inadvertently mirrored Peter Pan’s reluctance to mature.
Stanley’s approach, while innovative, has sparked debate. In his efforts to engage those skeptical of biblical authority, he began to downplay scriptural focus in sermons. While not outright denying the Bible’s authority, the emphasis shifted. This evolved into a de-emphasis on propositional truth, exemplified by the “ark ministry” analogy – suggesting belief in Jesus doesn’t necessitate belief in Noah’s Ark. More recently, the call to “unhitch ourselves from the Old Testament” further exemplifies a potential drift away from foundational biblical teachings in pursuit of cultural relevance. Where might this trajectory lead? This mirrors Peter Pan’s Neverland – a place of perpetual childhood, seemingly free of the complexities and demands of maturity.
The Core Issue: Four Misunderstandings
The allure of perpetual spiritual adolescence, much like Peter Pan’s Neverland, stems from fundamental misunderstandings about the essence of Christianity and the church’s purpose. These misunderstandings, prevalent in our Peter Pan generation churches, can be categorized into four critical areas:
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Misunderstanding the Nature of the Church: We have blurred the lines between “crusades” and “congregations.” Crusades, or evangelistic events, serve a vital purpose in introducing individuals to Jesus Christ. They are designed to cast a wide net. Congregations, however, are divinely ordained gatherings of believers, meant for worship, fellowship, and mutual edification – a space where we ascribe worth to God together. When the primary focus of the gathered church shifts from worship to evangelism, we risk losing sight of our identity as Christ’s bride, becoming inadvertently man-centered rather than God-centered. The church becomes less about deepening faith and more about attracting a crowd, echoing Peter Pan’s desire for constant novelty and excitement rather than the steady growth of a family.
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Misunderstanding the Essence of Worship: Entertainment has been mistakenly substituted for true worship. While engaging and relevant church services are valuable, the danger lies in prioritizing entertainment value over genuine worship. Entertainment-driven services can create a superficial sense of worship that ultimately exalts the creature – the experience, the music, the speaker – rather than the Creator (Romans 1:25). True worship is an act of adoration, reverence, and submission to God, rooted in a deep understanding of His character and grace. Confusing entertainment with worship is akin to Peter Pan’s playful adventures overshadowing the deeper meaning and purpose of life.
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Misunderstanding the Church’s Mission: The church’s mission extends beyond simply “making converts”; it is to “make disciples” (Matthew 28:19). While evangelism is crucial, it is only the starting point. In our zeal to win people to Christ, we often neglect the vital, ongoing process of disciple-making. We may provide spiritual milk for new believers, but fail to nurture them towards solid spiritual food, hindering their growth and maturity (Hebrews 5:14). A church focused solely on conversion without discipleship is like inviting children to Neverland but never guiding them to become responsible adults in the real world.
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Misunderstanding the Sufficiency of Scripture: A subtle but significant shift has occurred in our understanding of Scripture. We often affirm the “authority” of Scripture, yet practically deny its “sufficiency.” This is evident in the increasing reliance on external media and entertainment within church services to illustrate biblical points. Initially, a video clip in a sermon seemed creative. Then, longer movie clips interspersed with brief scriptural reflections became more common. Now, entire services are structured around movies, with pastors offering brief spiritual commentary. Sermon kits providing pre-packaged ideas and scripts further diminish the central role of Scripture. While these methods may acknowledge the Bible’s authority, they functionally marginalize its sufficiency. Scripture, once primary, becomes secondary, relegated to an afterthought, much like Peter Pan relegates adult responsibilities to the distant future.
A Call to Grow Up
Peter Pan famously refused to grow up, remaining in a state of perpetual childhood in Neverland. Wendy, however, chose a different path. She embraced adulthood, left Neverland, married, and had children. She even offered Peter Pan the chance to join her in this grown-up world, but he consistently refused, content in his arrested development. This contrast serves as a powerful allegory for the church today. Will we, like Peter Pan, refuse to grow up spiritually, prioritizing fleeting entertainment and superficial engagement? Or will we, like Wendy, embrace the fullness of spiritual maturity, grounded in worship, discipleship, and the sufficiency of Scripture, becoming the mature bride of Christ, ready for the responsibilities and blessings of spiritual adulthood?
